*ring*ring*
Me: "Hello, good afternoon Jay Jay's Marrickville, this is Gigi speaking"
Anonymous Guy:"Hi, I was in your shop this morning and I was just wondering how big your tits were?"
What a great way to start your day at work
Monday, September 17, 2007
Saturday, September 01, 2007
When a Woman Loves a Man
I got a call from Soon today telling me Mr. Big rang him and told him Ms. Mum's BF had rang Mr. Big. When Mr. Big answered the call he heard Ms. Mum's BF on the phone saying 'you mother fucker get your ass here' to someone but not to him particularly. Then Mr. Big heard on the background Ms. Mum crying hysterically and shouting. After that the phone cut off. We knew what was going on and told Mr. Big to drive over to Ms. Mum's place lest her BF is hitting her. When Mr. Big got to Ms. Mum's place, her BF refused to come out and was hiding himself in the room. So, Mr. Big asked Ms. Mum what was going on, why is she torturing herself being with him again after all that he has done etc etc and to cut a long story short, nothing was settled and Mr. Big left.
I feel the pain for Ms. Mum and I am extremely worried for her. Everyone around her has told her that her BF is psychotic, possesive and just plain crazy. How could a man accuse his own girlfriend of having an affair with all the gay friends she has, and whom she has known for several years? His reason, they are just pretending to be gay so that they could take advantage of her. That was the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
Ms. Mum used to be a strong and independent woman. She always believed that women could live without men as long as they are capable of taking care and financing themselves. I do not know what has happened to her. She is no longer the person she was when I knew her. Time and time this man has hurt her, not allowing her to go out, not allowing her to have any friends at all, cutting off her social life and controlling her life. Every twice a week he would go crazy shouting and screaming at her and accusing her of doing things that she did not do. But yet, again and again she forgives him and goes back to him. Even after he left her and moved out from their place, dissappearing for 2 weeks without answering any of her calls, she still waited until he came back.
Soon said to me that I could never understand why Ms. Mum is behaving like that because I am not a woman in her early 30s who is still not married when everyone around her is getting married. He said I will never understand the loneliness one would feel when you have no one to love you and care for you especially when you've hit 30 something of age.
Is it true that when you're in your 30s and have a boyfriend you would hang on to him no matter what just because you're worried you will never be able to find another one? Do we, as women really need to depend on such lousy man, giving our everything and only getting heartaches in return? I understand truly that it gets lonely, but losing your self worth and self respect for a man like that is even worse than being lonely for the rest of your life. If ever I become like that, I pray, my dear friends, bring me back to reality.
I feel the pain for Ms. Mum and I am extremely worried for her. Everyone around her has told her that her BF is psychotic, possesive and just plain crazy. How could a man accuse his own girlfriend of having an affair with all the gay friends she has, and whom she has known for several years? His reason, they are just pretending to be gay so that they could take advantage of her. That was the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard.
Ms. Mum used to be a strong and independent woman. She always believed that women could live without men as long as they are capable of taking care and financing themselves. I do not know what has happened to her. She is no longer the person she was when I knew her. Time and time this man has hurt her, not allowing her to go out, not allowing her to have any friends at all, cutting off her social life and controlling her life. Every twice a week he would go crazy shouting and screaming at her and accusing her of doing things that she did not do. But yet, again and again she forgives him and goes back to him. Even after he left her and moved out from their place, dissappearing for 2 weeks without answering any of her calls, she still waited until he came back.
Soon said to me that I could never understand why Ms. Mum is behaving like that because I am not a woman in her early 30s who is still not married when everyone around her is getting married. He said I will never understand the loneliness one would feel when you have no one to love you and care for you especially when you've hit 30 something of age.
Is it true that when you're in your 30s and have a boyfriend you would hang on to him no matter what just because you're worried you will never be able to find another one? Do we, as women really need to depend on such lousy man, giving our everything and only getting heartaches in return? I understand truly that it gets lonely, but losing your self worth and self respect for a man like that is even worse than being lonely for the rest of your life. If ever I become like that, I pray, my dear friends, bring me back to reality.
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
A True Boyfriend
I came across this and found it rather interesting. Unconsciously I realised I was actually refering it to Man and making a 'tick' to where it applies. I've added a couple more stuff to remind myself what a great man he is (though I know many would find that he's 'too much). I thinks its sweet (what the hell is wrong with me).
1. Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything *tick*
2. Tease her and let her tease you back *tick*
3. Stay up all night with her when she's sick. Go all the way to chinatown to buy her congee, putting towels on her forehead to make sure her termperature doesn't go up, feeling her temperature every 1 hour throughout the night. *tick*tick*tick*tick*
4. Watch her favorite movie with her *tick*
5. Give her the world and protect her from the world *tick*tick*
6. Let her wear your clothes *tick*
7. When she's bored and sad, hang outwith her. Even when she's not bored and sad still hang out with her *tick*tick*
8. Let her know she's important *tick*
9. Kiss her in the pouring rain, or under the blazing sun *tick*tick*
10. When she runs up at you crying.. thefirst thing you say is.."Who's ass am i beating today baby?" *tick*
11. Blows dry her hair when she's done showering *tick*
12. Offer to do the dishes when she's too lazy *tick*
13. Clean the house when she's out working or at Uni without being asked so that she doesn't have to do it *tick*
14. Making her coffee when she's tired without being asked *tick*
15. Puts blanket over her when she falls asleep on the couch *tick*
16. Gives her your jacket when she's feeling cold even though its only 10 degree and you're only wearing a T-shirt *tick*
I may add in more later when I can think of what he has done. There may be more, or they may not be afterall.
1. Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything *tick*
2. Tease her and let her tease you back *tick*
3. Stay up all night with her when she's sick. Go all the way to chinatown to buy her congee, putting towels on her forehead to make sure her termperature doesn't go up, feeling her temperature every 1 hour throughout the night. *tick*tick*tick*tick*
4. Watch her favorite movie with her *tick*
5. Give her the world and protect her from the world *tick*tick*
6. Let her wear your clothes *tick*
7. When she's bored and sad, hang outwith her. Even when she's not bored and sad still hang out with her *tick*tick*
8. Let her know she's important *tick*
9. Kiss her in the pouring rain, or under the blazing sun *tick*tick*
10. When she runs up at you crying.. thefirst thing you say is.."Who's ass am i beating today baby?" *tick*
11. Blows dry her hair when she's done showering *tick*
12. Offer to do the dishes when she's too lazy *tick*
13. Clean the house when she's out working or at Uni without being asked so that she doesn't have to do it *tick*
14. Making her coffee when she's tired without being asked *tick*
15. Puts blanket over her when she falls asleep on the couch *tick*
16. Gives her your jacket when she's feeling cold even though its only 10 degree and you're only wearing a T-shirt *tick*
I may add in more later when I can think of what he has done. There may be more, or they may not be afterall.
Monday, August 27, 2007
An uneventful day
Today was uneventful as I had to work from 9am to 5.30pm. So I was stuck in the shop for approximately 8.5 hours. Took the bus home at a quater to 6 and stopped by Coles to shop for bread. I had a sudden craving for bread and sandwiches while working and so while in Coles I bought a bag of dinner rolls (which had 6 in them), a loaf of wholemeal multigrain bread and a loaf of turkish bread. Its about due for 'time of the month' and thus the weird cravings.
Dinner was simple, lemon pepper tuna topped with ricotta, four season salad and mayonnaise on the toasted wholemeal multigrain bread. Tomorrow's probably going to be turkish bread night with the dinner rolls as entre. At 9 Soon called and told me he was having dinner with Ross at Pizza & Beer and they bought a bottle of red wine. So being a fan of red wine how could I resist. As assured by Soon, the red wine was absolutely beautiful, smooth, full flavoured and bold; an Elderton Shiraz year 2004.
So today was not that bad after all, a good wine at the end of the day always always cure anything.
Dinner was simple, lemon pepper tuna topped with ricotta, four season salad and mayonnaise on the toasted wholemeal multigrain bread. Tomorrow's probably going to be turkish bread night with the dinner rolls as entre. At 9 Soon called and told me he was having dinner with Ross at Pizza & Beer and they bought a bottle of red wine. So being a fan of red wine how could I resist. As assured by Soon, the red wine was absolutely beautiful, smooth, full flavoured and bold; an Elderton Shiraz year 2004.
So today was not that bad after all, a good wine at the end of the day always always cure anything.
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Man and Family
Man has finally gone to Macau and meet my family (parents, brother, aunt and uncle). He made a pre-tour around Macau to familiarize himself with the tourist area and took a couple of maps just in case they'd get lost while having walk. He said it was especially important for my brother just in case he got lost and couldn't find his way back to the hotel. He even bought a local phone sim card for my parents so that they could call him without having to pay international roaming. Parents seem to absolutely adore him because of the way he was taking care of them. They were particularly impressed by how thoughtful he was with everything and that he actually made the initiative to want to meet my parents for the first time without me being there.
I must say this is the first time a guy has ever done anything like that for me. He really wanted my family to like and accept him and said that it is absolutely mandatory for him to take care of them because they are my family. I am extremely touched by all his actions and it is really hard that we are so far apart. Sometimes I feel that this is all just a dream and it is not real that I have finally found a man who not only love and adores me but also my family. Im only hoping we could maintain this relationship although it is difficult and I really beginning to think that this guy is worth considering marriage with. Fingers crossed. I hope everthing will turn out good.
I must say this is the first time a guy has ever done anything like that for me. He really wanted my family to like and accept him and said that it is absolutely mandatory for him to take care of them because they are my family. I am extremely touched by all his actions and it is really hard that we are so far apart. Sometimes I feel that this is all just a dream and it is not real that I have finally found a man who not only love and adores me but also my family. Im only hoping we could maintain this relationship although it is difficult and I really beginning to think that this guy is worth considering marriage with. Fingers crossed. I hope everthing will turn out good.
Saturday, August 11, 2007
Outdated post that I've written and kept hidden and forgot to post
I’ve never thought I could find a serious and stable relationship ever in my life. Something always happens in the midst of it and then it will be the end. I knew I could never trust a man no matter how much I like him and even if I might tell him I trust him completely deep down I know I never could. At the back of my mind I’m always expecting something bad to happen.
Being in a relationship with him is beginning to change my view on men. He has somehow made me believe that there is still hope in mankind (literally). Never have I met a man that truly knows and understands me without having me tell him what I want. The first incident that made me notice he is different happened 2 weeks into the relationship. He came to me and showed me a picture of the bus timetable he took at the bus stop for the buses that I usually take to work and Uni. He said this is so that I don’t have to rush and guess what time the bus is coming and then always carelessly leave things at home. It is always the little things that he does that really touched me deep inside. But most importantly I know, he loves me with all his heart.
I have never had a man that buys me a mobile when he realized my mobile’s not working. I’ve never had a man who offers to meet my family and want my family to meet him. I’ve never had a man that pampers me and doesn’t patronize me even when he knows I’m wrong. But most of all, I’ve never had a man that asks for nothing except for me to care and to love him. Why is it then, do I still feel skeptical of the relationship? Could it be because it is too good to be true?
Sunday, May 13, 2007
The thing I always think I am incapable of having, has come to me
Still to my disbelieve, I think its beginning. But where will it lead to? What will it be like?
Tuesday, May 08, 2007
A Place To Call My Own
Its been a hectic 1 month for me, juggling between jobs, assignment and looking for a place to stay. So I apologize, my dear friends for not updating my blog.
Today have been a lucky day for me because I've finally managed to rent a place. Its a partly furnished studio apartment and its situated at a very convenient area. Only 5 minutes walk from Soon's place. I've never thought I'd be able to get it actually because it all happened too suddenly. I only found out about the inspection this morning itself when I went online. But lucky for me the agent said he preferred me than this other German girl (who actually has already put in the deposit for the place) so he's leasing it to me. But of course I'd have to pay $5 extra each week so instead of the asking price $200 a week I'd have to pay $205 a week.
The studio is a funny little place because the bathroom is actually situated outside instead of inside. So I'd have to walk around half naked on the balcony to get the toilet everyday. Not complaining because that place is really a good deal. I've seen quite a few other places and they are all crappy and expensive. The only thing is, I haven't got a bed in the new place so I can't move in just yet. Silly Soon said he'll loan me the bed and when everyone's asleep at night we'll carry the bed together back to my new place. Sometimes I wonder what goes on in that big head of his. Just the other day when we (Soon, Ross and me) were having yum cha for lunch at Marigold he said this to Ross; 'You know, actually Chinese are very smart. Just by using 2 sticks and our finger we can manage to create chopsticks but westerners only know how to use fork, so easy! Just poke poke poke. Chinese can make use of everything around them to create something new or to replace something that they lack of. For example if girls need to make-up and they ran out of eye shadow they can use the Tumeric powder as eye shadow. See! So smart!'. Seriously, what the hell is wrong with this guy?? He could just come out with anything.
I'm really happy with my life here at the moment...minus the few stressful moments when u have to think about money and work. It really is different when you have to rent a place urself, pay for the rent and bills etc etc....It really is different from when you're living at home with parents. But its all good.....it feels like an adult hahehehea.
So that's all the time I have folks. Will update again soon.
Today have been a lucky day for me because I've finally managed to rent a place. Its a partly furnished studio apartment and its situated at a very convenient area. Only 5 minutes walk from Soon's place. I've never thought I'd be able to get it actually because it all happened too suddenly. I only found out about the inspection this morning itself when I went online. But lucky for me the agent said he preferred me than this other German girl (who actually has already put in the deposit for the place) so he's leasing it to me. But of course I'd have to pay $5 extra each week so instead of the asking price $200 a week I'd have to pay $205 a week.
The studio is a funny little place because the bathroom is actually situated outside instead of inside. So I'd have to walk around half naked on the balcony to get the toilet everyday. Not complaining because that place is really a good deal. I've seen quite a few other places and they are all crappy and expensive. The only thing is, I haven't got a bed in the new place so I can't move in just yet. Silly Soon said he'll loan me the bed and when everyone's asleep at night we'll carry the bed together back to my new place. Sometimes I wonder what goes on in that big head of his. Just the other day when we (Soon, Ross and me) were having yum cha for lunch at Marigold he said this to Ross; 'You know, actually Chinese are very smart. Just by using 2 sticks and our finger we can manage to create chopsticks but westerners only know how to use fork, so easy! Just poke poke poke. Chinese can make use of everything around them to create something new or to replace something that they lack of. For example if girls need to make-up and they ran out of eye shadow they can use the Tumeric powder as eye shadow. See! So smart!'. Seriously, what the hell is wrong with this guy?? He could just come out with anything.
I'm really happy with my life here at the moment...minus the few stressful moments when u have to think about money and work. It really is different when you have to rent a place urself, pay for the rent and bills etc etc....It really is different from when you're living at home with parents. But its all good.....it feels like an adult hahehehea.
So that's all the time I have folks. Will update again soon.
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
Woot Woot!!
Daren Hayes is performing in BX tonight and I'll be working! WooHoooo~!! Its like getting paid to watch Daren Hayes....hehehe. Ross said his partner will be there I wonder how he looks like.
Saturday, March 17, 2007
Not Perasan La....
I have a feeling Mr. Chef (one of the chefs at BX) likes me. It's an instinct... the way he always tries to get me to notice him, annoys the hell out of me just so that i could talk to him, stealing glimpses of me when he thinks im not looking. However, 50% of the people in BX hates him because he's a dickhead. My feeling towards him is confused. Sometimes I think he's a nice guy....but sometimes when he really annoys me I loathe him....sometimes he can be very obnoxious and rude and then I feel like punching him right at the face.
Anyone has any idea how I could test him out and see if he really is interested in me?
Anyone has any idea how I could test him out and see if he really is interested in me?
Tuesday, March 13, 2007
Today I made new friends....
:)
1. CC from Singapore
2. Miso from Japan
3. Han from Sri Lanka
4. Libby from China
5. Lissy from China
6. EL from China
now we all have each other's phone number so I can consider them friends....It feels like primary school again......
1. CC from Singapore
2. Miso from Japan
3. Han from Sri Lanka
4. Libby from China
5. Lissy from China
6. EL from China
now we all have each other's phone number so I can consider them friends....It feels like primary school again......
Tuesday, March 06, 2007
On What's Been Happening
It's been ages I know since I last blogged. Not that I do not have anything to write about but because I'm using Ross's laptop to do it, it just doesn't feel right. Life's really good here and I'm so glad to be here. Uni only started yesterday so I've been doing nothing but 'playing' for the past one month.
Talking about Uni, I've always thought Malaysia or Asian countries are the biggest player in the hierachichal social status but apparently Australia does it too. For starters, my first Professor said he gives priority to his Postgrad students for consultation. He doesn't like Undergrads (Actually I find that offensive because I have once been an Undergrad Student) So anytime we wanna see him he'd be more that happy too. Today as I was walking towards the Uni bookstore ( I need to get a reader for Thursday) I realised the queue is nearly 2 km long but because I needed the book I had to join in the line. As it was nearing my turn which is about half hour waiting in line, I saw a special sign next to my queue which says 'Postgrads Priority Only' which has only 3 person in line! Can't believe how stupid I was waiting in line for 30 minutes.
Anyway, got a job and the pay is fantastic. Will upload pictures soon.
Talking about Uni, I've always thought Malaysia or Asian countries are the biggest player in the hierachichal social status but apparently Australia does it too. For starters, my first Professor said he gives priority to his Postgrad students for consultation. He doesn't like Undergrads (Actually I find that offensive because I have once been an Undergrad Student) So anytime we wanna see him he'd be more that happy too. Today as I was walking towards the Uni bookstore ( I need to get a reader for Thursday) I realised the queue is nearly 2 km long but because I needed the book I had to join in the line. As it was nearing my turn which is about half hour waiting in line, I saw a special sign next to my queue which says 'Postgrads Priority Only' which has only 3 person in line! Can't believe how stupid I was waiting in line for 30 minutes.
Anyway, got a job and the pay is fantastic. Will upload pictures soon.
Wednesday, January 24, 2007
The Art of Kissing
So there we were the 3 of us having a drink at our usual place and the full detail of what transpired this conversation I cannot remember
He: Have you guys encountered anyone who really suck at kissing?
Me: Oh my god yes!! It's so disgusting just to think of it.
She: Really?? I've never....all my partners were pretty alright
He: Wow you've been really lucky...
Me: Yeah man....so lucky
She: What do you mean by bad?? How is it like?
Me: You wouldn't want to experience it...
He: I had this girl....she was so bad.....my face was wet all over
Me + She: Eeeewwww Gross!
He: Hehehehe yup.....it was horrendous....I was like 'keep your tongue babe....I don't need you to help me wash my face' and then you smell her saliva on you....Teehehehe
Me+She: *sweat*
He: Have you guys encountered anyone who really suck at kissing?
Me: Oh my god yes!! It's so disgusting just to think of it.
She: Really?? I've never....all my partners were pretty alright
He: Wow you've been really lucky...
Me: Yeah man....so lucky
She: What do you mean by bad?? How is it like?
Me: You wouldn't want to experience it...
He: I had this girl....she was so bad.....my face was wet all over
Me + She: Eeeewwww Gross!
He: Hehehehe yup.....it was horrendous....I was like 'keep your tongue babe....I don't need you to help me wash my face' and then you smell her saliva on you....Teehehehe
Me+She: *sweat*
Tuesday, January 23, 2007
Yay!
Visa approved! Chop, Sign, till April 2009! AaAaahhh Life is Wonderful~! 3 more weeks and I'll be gone from Malaysia!
p/s: Soon has been bragging about his 'beautiful' house and the fountain he built. He's also taking me to this 'wonderful' Laosian restaurant (which he can't stop talking about) on the night I'm ariving. Fingers crossed that everything he said is true to his words.
p/s: Soon has been bragging about his 'beautiful' house and the fountain he built. He's also taking me to this 'wonderful' Laosian restaurant (which he can't stop talking about) on the night I'm ariving. Fingers crossed that everything he said is true to his words.
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
Krazy is the word
Once upon time, there was a friend. Now this friends lives in a lovely neighbourhood in Bandar Utama. One fine day, a middle aged married couple decided to move in right next to them. Everything was going very well the first few months. They exchanged friendly greetings, friend's mum will sometimes have a short chit-chat while hanging out clothes to dry.
Suddenly, all hell broke loose. New neighbour decided that they could no longer live like a normal human being and decided to torment friend and the neighbourhood. After much analysis from witnessing and experiencing first hand on how she torments the neighbourhood, we've come to a conclusion that new neighbour suffers from psychological disorder; mainly ------> Aggression, Schizophrenia, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and Bipolar Disorder.
To know more about new neighbour's bizzare behaviour please click this and then this
Have a good night!
Suddenly, all hell broke loose. New neighbour decided that they could no longer live like a normal human being and decided to torment friend and the neighbourhood. After much analysis from witnessing and experiencing first hand on how she torments the neighbourhood, we've come to a conclusion that new neighbour suffers from psychological disorder; mainly ------> Aggression, Schizophrenia, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and Bipolar Disorder.
To know more about new neighbour's bizzare behaviour please click this and then this
Have a good night!
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Sydney here I come!
I know I haven't been blogging for quite some time. Well...for those who know me I'm not the biggest fan of writing....sometimes I get lazy and then I procrastinate and etc. Nothing much has been happening lately except for the fact that I'll be leaving for Sydney on the 9th Feb and I'm in the midst of getting all my stuffs ready.
Many have been asking when I'll be back and honestly I myself do not know. So what I usually say is "when my passport expires in 2011". My plan is to try and stay in Sydney for as long as I can and if I can't stay, my next stop would be New Zealand, and then if I still can't find a way to stay I'll pop over to England.
Soon mentioned that David Alice (mutual friend of mine in Sydney but good friend of his) is willing to rent his place to me and it will be fun because he said David will then take me along with him to all the Art Exhibitions. Why Art Exhibitions because apparently David is the Director of Art Muzeum for University of Sydney. But the rent is about AUD150 a week and honestly I don't know if I can afford to pay that much. The area that David is staying is considered one of the 'rich' areas and he is living in a double story town house. He's taking the lower floor and is planning to rent the top floor to me. Soon has told me not to worry because he has already reserved a place for me to work in Jay Jay where he and Alice are currently working and they are paying AUD18++ an hour on weekdays and AUD20++ an hour on weekends. If its still not enough to cover for my expenses I'll probably work at night as well in a restaurant or something.
On another note, my medical check-up report is making me worried because the panel doctor has yet to submit the report to the immigration department. It'll take the Aus government a minimum of 14 working days to process my visa and I don't have much time left until the 9th. I'm crossing my fingers that I'll get my visa by then.
I'm heading back to bed now. Till then!
Many have been asking when I'll be back and honestly I myself do not know. So what I usually say is "when my passport expires in 2011". My plan is to try and stay in Sydney for as long as I can and if I can't stay, my next stop would be New Zealand, and then if I still can't find a way to stay I'll pop over to England.
Soon mentioned that David Alice (mutual friend of mine in Sydney but good friend of his) is willing to rent his place to me and it will be fun because he said David will then take me along with him to all the Art Exhibitions. Why Art Exhibitions because apparently David is the Director of Art Muzeum for University of Sydney. But the rent is about AUD150 a week and honestly I don't know if I can afford to pay that much. The area that David is staying is considered one of the 'rich' areas and he is living in a double story town house. He's taking the lower floor and is planning to rent the top floor to me. Soon has told me not to worry because he has already reserved a place for me to work in Jay Jay where he and Alice are currently working and they are paying AUD18++ an hour on weekdays and AUD20++ an hour on weekends. If its still not enough to cover for my expenses I'll probably work at night as well in a restaurant or something.
On another note, my medical check-up report is making me worried because the panel doctor has yet to submit the report to the immigration department. It'll take the Aus government a minimum of 14 working days to process my visa and I don't have much time left until the 9th. I'm crossing my fingers that I'll get my visa by then.
I'm heading back to bed now. Till then!
Thursday, November 23, 2006
Hey Papa....
“Are you free?” Mummy asked as I answered the phone. I was having lunch with Shir on a normal Tuesday afternoon. “Why?” I asked. “Nothing. Just wanted to chit chat with you” she said. The moment she said that I knew something was wrong because she has never called just to chat with me. “Huh?? You called just to chit chat with me? No way. What is it? I’m having lunch with my colleague” I said. “Hehehe…Nothing just wanted to tell you your dad just met with an accident. A Prado hit the back of the car as he was trying to make a U-turn at Taman Tun”. “What?!?” I shouted. “Is he okay? Was it bad?”. “He’s fine. Just that the whole trunk is gone. The other car was speeding and your dad was driving quite slowly so I guess he couldn’t brake on time and he hit the back of the car. I’m waiting for him to come back now. Hehehe…. Anyway just wanted to tell you that’s all”.
As I was walking into the kitchen later that night, Daddy said “I need you to go to the police station with me”. “I thought you’ve already reported this afternoon?” I asked. “Not yet” he replied. Most of the journey to the police station was quiet. Minus the few moments when he was telling me not to drive too near to the car in front just in case they brake suddenly and I’ll bang into them.
When we were at the Police Station, it suddenly hit me how old my dad has become. Mind you my dad is 60 and he still goes for his twice a week badminton session. He makes fantastic food and is always happy telling me how he made certain dishes and what sort of ingredients he used. Now at the station, he no longer stand straight but hunching a little while walking around not sure whether to fill in the form first or to wait for the Police on duty to call for his turn. I took the form and told him he needs to fill it up and give it to the Police.
When it was our turn to report, I realized the reason why he wanted me to be there with him was because we needed to type the report onto the computer ourselves. Unlike a few years back, the police no longer sits and writes for you. While waiting for the Sergeant, I remembered how he used to be the one taking me to the Police Station when I lost my IC, how he arranged for my driving lessons, buying me my air ticket when I was flying to Australia, carrying me into the car and drove me to the doctor when I was having measles because I was too sick to walk, and all the little little things a responsible father would do. Taking us all out for family trip, driving to some god forsaken place for a what he would say “extremely good food where you can’t find anywhere in KL” Every time I’m out with my friends he would sit at his chair waiting for me to come home because I’m constantly home late. The moment he hears the gate he would stand up and walk to the front door with keys in his hands and open up the door for me.
Now, he’s constantly going to the toilet (one of the signs of old age), slowly losing his focus and always forgetting things.
My dad has never been a man with many words. We never share hugs, nor do we tell each other how much we love each other (normal, being in a traditional Chinese family). Even without all these, I know for a fact that he does love me and the family very much from the things he does, and the way he cares for us. 10 years down he would be 70 and I, 34. I’m afraid to even think of how he would be like, then. Will he still be driving around? Will he still be in the kitchen trying to cook his ‘signature’ dishes? Will he still be saying the same old thing he has been saying for the past 15 years ‘Stop coming home so late. Stop spending so much money. Stop driving so fast.’?
But one thing I know for sure that will never change, is the passion we both share for cooking, how alike we actually are in personality no matter how much we try to deny it, how we annoy the hell out of one another due to both our stubbornness, and that he would always be my father, my hero, my role model, and I, the rebellious, stubborn, annoying eldest daughter that will never grow up in his eyes.
As I was walking into the kitchen later that night, Daddy said “I need you to go to the police station with me”. “I thought you’ve already reported this afternoon?” I asked. “Not yet” he replied. Most of the journey to the police station was quiet. Minus the few moments when he was telling me not to drive too near to the car in front just in case they brake suddenly and I’ll bang into them.
When we were at the Police Station, it suddenly hit me how old my dad has become. Mind you my dad is 60 and he still goes for his twice a week badminton session. He makes fantastic food and is always happy telling me how he made certain dishes and what sort of ingredients he used. Now at the station, he no longer stand straight but hunching a little while walking around not sure whether to fill in the form first or to wait for the Police on duty to call for his turn. I took the form and told him he needs to fill it up and give it to the Police.
When it was our turn to report, I realized the reason why he wanted me to be there with him was because we needed to type the report onto the computer ourselves. Unlike a few years back, the police no longer sits and writes for you. While waiting for the Sergeant, I remembered how he used to be the one taking me to the Police Station when I lost my IC, how he arranged for my driving lessons, buying me my air ticket when I was flying to Australia, carrying me into the car and drove me to the doctor when I was having measles because I was too sick to walk, and all the little little things a responsible father would do. Taking us all out for family trip, driving to some god forsaken place for a what he would say “extremely good food where you can’t find anywhere in KL” Every time I’m out with my friends he would sit at his chair waiting for me to come home because I’m constantly home late. The moment he hears the gate he would stand up and walk to the front door with keys in his hands and open up the door for me.
Now, he’s constantly going to the toilet (one of the signs of old age), slowly losing his focus and always forgetting things.
My dad has never been a man with many words. We never share hugs, nor do we tell each other how much we love each other (normal, being in a traditional Chinese family). Even without all these, I know for a fact that he does love me and the family very much from the things he does, and the way he cares for us. 10 years down he would be 70 and I, 34. I’m afraid to even think of how he would be like, then. Will he still be driving around? Will he still be in the kitchen trying to cook his ‘signature’ dishes? Will he still be saying the same old thing he has been saying for the past 15 years ‘Stop coming home so late. Stop spending so much money. Stop driving so fast.’?
But one thing I know for sure that will never change, is the passion we both share for cooking, how alike we actually are in personality no matter how much we try to deny it, how we annoy the hell out of one another due to both our stubbornness, and that he would always be my father, my hero, my role model, and I, the rebellious, stubborn, annoying eldest daughter that will never grow up in his eyes.
Monday, November 20, 2006
Indescent proposal
How do one deals with the situation when a good friends asks you if you'd sleep with them. Bearing in mind both of you are of the same sex(in this case I'm a girl and she's a girl) and she's adamant that she would like to try it out with you. Not because she's a lesbian, but because it is one of her fantasies to sleep with a woman and she would like to experience how it is like to 'lick a p**sy'(literally). In addition, she would like her boyfriend to be in it as well if you're willing, if not he just watch. or if you're still not willing, she'd lock him out and its just a one - to - one (you and her).
The first time she proposed i brushed it off because she was not very direct. It came very subtly and seemed like a joke. The second time it was straight-on right at the face. Today I spoke to her she said she liked me. Part of me felt honoured but the other part of me felt disgusted. How do I turn her down without offending her? At the first place, is it wrong to ask a friend for a favor like that?
I have friends who feel that it is not wrong. They say that this is because subject and me are friends and since she can't just try it out with any tom, dick, and harry, the best person to try it out with is a friend whom she trust. But then again, since she's a friend, how could you even do it and when everything is over, pretend like nothing has ever happened? Will there be a difference towards our friendship? Are we going to start using one another for sex just because we can?
What kind of friendship is this then?
*Billy once told me this scandalistic story when I was in Australia:
He: You know *Linnie and *Lannie are best friends right (*names changed to protect their privacy)
Me: Yeah why?
He: There was one period when they were both single. They just broke up with their boyfriend I think about a month and they were both feeling very horny.
Me: *eyes wide open and fearing for the worst* AND?
He: So they decided since they were both horny and they can't get any guys to f**k they might as well f**k each other.
Me: *jaw nearly dropping to the ground* BUT THEY ARE BOTH BEST FRIENDS! AREN'T THEY DISGUSTED? THEY'VE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR QUITE SOME TIME RITE? DON'T THEY FEEL EMBARASSED? Imagine....the thought of kissing, licking and sucking your bestfriend's t*ts and p**sy!! EEeeewwww
He: Don't know....they were both very horny wurt....so might as well.... but it was a one off thing...after that they decided it was a stupid thing and they should not do it again. They are both still very close though..... hehehe
Me: ..............
So do these things actually happen? Am I over-reacting? Is this then, still considered as a purely 'platonic' relationship?
The first time she proposed i brushed it off because she was not very direct. It came very subtly and seemed like a joke. The second time it was straight-on right at the face. Today I spoke to her she said she liked me. Part of me felt honoured but the other part of me felt disgusted. How do I turn her down without offending her? At the first place, is it wrong to ask a friend for a favor like that?
I have friends who feel that it is not wrong. They say that this is because subject and me are friends and since she can't just try it out with any tom, dick, and harry, the best person to try it out with is a friend whom she trust. But then again, since she's a friend, how could you even do it and when everything is over, pretend like nothing has ever happened? Will there be a difference towards our friendship? Are we going to start using one another for sex just because we can?
What kind of friendship is this then?
*Billy once told me this scandalistic story when I was in Australia:
He: You know *Linnie and *Lannie are best friends right (*names changed to protect their privacy)
Me: Yeah why?
He: There was one period when they were both single. They just broke up with their boyfriend I think about a month and they were both feeling very horny.
Me: *eyes wide open and fearing for the worst* AND?
He: So they decided since they were both horny and they can't get any guys to f**k they might as well f**k each other.
Me: *jaw nearly dropping to the ground* BUT THEY ARE BOTH BEST FRIENDS! AREN'T THEY DISGUSTED? THEY'VE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR QUITE SOME TIME RITE? DON'T THEY FEEL EMBARASSED? Imagine....the thought of kissing, licking and sucking your bestfriend's t*ts and p**sy!! EEeeewwww
He: Don't know....they were both very horny wurt....so might as well.... but it was a one off thing...after that they decided it was a stupid thing and they should not do it again. They are both still very close though..... hehehe
Me: ..............
So do these things actually happen? Am I over-reacting? Is this then, still considered as a purely 'platonic' relationship?
The most boring, no-brainer job in the whole wide world........
is telemarketing.
And I'm in it. *faints*
And I'm in it. *faints*
Blogging Time....
A friend was complaining that I hardly ever update my blog. Problem is, I hardly ever go online other than during at work. Don't ask me why, I don't know. It will never occur to me just go online and chat and then blog. Most of the time when things happen to me I 'think' I want to blog about it. Come the time when I get home and I can go online, I don't 'think' I wanna blog about it anymore because I might have already lost all the excitement of writing about it.
I always wonder how some bloggers can keep in mind what they want to blog about and then blog about it maybe 1 month later. Hell I can't even remember things that happened to me 2 weeks before. I guess I just don't have the passion to write like they do. But once in a while I do get the urge to blog. Like now. And I'm at work. Hehe
I always wonder how some bloggers can keep in mind what they want to blog about and then blog about it maybe 1 month later. Hell I can't even remember things that happened to me 2 weeks before. I guess I just don't have the passion to write like they do. But once in a while I do get the urge to blog. Like now. And I'm at work. Hehe
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