How do one deals with the situation when a good friends asks you if you'd sleep with them. Bearing in mind both of you are of the same sex(in this case I'm a girl and she's a girl) and she's adamant that she would like to try it out with you. Not because she's a lesbian, but because it is one of her fantasies to sleep with a woman and she would like to experience how it is like to 'lick a p**sy'(literally). In addition, she would like her boyfriend to be in it as well if you're willing, if not he just watch. or if you're still not willing, she'd lock him out and its just a one - to - one (you and her).
The first time she proposed i brushed it off because she was not very direct. It came very subtly and seemed like a joke. The second time it was straight-on right at the face. Today I spoke to her she said she liked me. Part of me felt honoured but the other part of me felt disgusted. How do I turn her down without offending her? At the first place, is it wrong to ask a friend for a favor like that?
I have friends who feel that it is not wrong. They say that this is because subject and me are friends and since she can't just try it out with any tom, dick, and harry, the best person to try it out with is a friend whom she trust. But then again, since she's a friend, how could you even do it and when everything is over, pretend like nothing has ever happened? Will there be a difference towards our friendship? Are we going to start using one another for sex just because we can?
What kind of friendship is this then?
*Billy once told me this scandalistic story when I was in Australia:
He: You know *Linnie and *Lannie are best friends right (*names changed to protect their privacy)
Me: Yeah why?
He: There was one period when they were both single. They just broke up with their boyfriend I think about a month and they were both feeling very horny.
Me: *eyes wide open and fearing for the worst* AND?
He: So they decided since they were both horny and they can't get any guys to f**k they might as well f**k each other.
Me: *jaw nearly dropping to the ground* BUT THEY ARE BOTH BEST FRIENDS! AREN'T THEY DISGUSTED? THEY'VE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOR QUITE SOME TIME RITE? DON'T THEY FEEL EMBARASSED? Imagine....the thought of kissing, licking and sucking your bestfriend's t*ts and p**sy!! EEeeewwww
He: Don't know....they were both very horny wurt....so might as well.... but it was a one off thing...after that they decided it was a stupid thing and they should not do it again. They are both still very close though..... hehehe
Me: ..............
So do these things actually happen? Am I over-reacting? Is this then, still considered as a purely 'platonic' relationship?
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I think it's wrong!
If you think it's not right, why the hell are you even considering it!
well, i'm speaking from a very open-minded-point-of-view. since, we're all grown adults and we do have "casual" relationships, better known as no-strings-attached / friends-with-benefits, what is wrong with having sex with a friend? better a friend than a total stranger, some might say. as for the same-sex thing, it's an experience.
that aside, if you think it's wrong, don't do it. but just saying that i've some similar experience of these sort but never reacted on it. it's more a conscience thing.
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